"Happy Birthday da...." ....with these words my brother woke me up. My joy knew no bounds as i was waiting for this day for almost a year(....from my last B'day).Then slowly as i woke up Mom and dad wished me.Immediately i got a call from my Grandpa and Grandma wishing me.The day was brighter than ever,by then mom was busy cooking and Dad was rushing for his Office.Slowly one by one started leaving, dad for his office , Bro for his coll and Mom as usual was busy getting ready for Office.I was the only one without any tensions (since my exams got over and i was at home preparing for my GRE...).The day was getting fainted already lacking the enthusiasm once it had.
But a few years back when i was in my schooling days.My bro and i used to make a long time-table for my birthday.We would go purchase clothes few days before the B'day and would be waiting anxiously for the day to come.On that day all of us(me ,bro, mom and dad) would start with a movie then some restaurant and slowly come home in an auto(though we had to walk for a short distance from everywhere).By the time we reach home Grandpa and grandma(...they used to stay with us then) would be waiting to go to Temple.We used to go to Temple walking ,and on the way me and bro used to fight and dad would scold both of us and grandpa would console(...if anyone of us were crying).Then after coming home i used to go to bed waiting for my next BIRTHDAY(...even though i know i had a long time to wait).
Now there is fun on my B'day but not the kind of fun once i had.Now i hang out with friends having parties in some fancy bakers ...but those will be the days i would never forget.I still remember all the movies i went and the names of restaurant ,at that time My B'day ,my Bro's B'day and my parents wedding anniversary were the once i enjoyed to fullest(.....more than any festival).
Today everything is turned mechanical ,not a single minute to waste and a not a single minute to spare.Now I buy clothes without any occasion but once it was meaningful(..on some occasion).Movies and restaurants have become a "...daily affair"(not literally) and Temples have become like "....once a year or before Exams". Greeting cards have turned E-cards now. I think this is a different phase of my life and start adapting to it and as we grow up there would be different phases of our lives.
Wish i was a kid again bringing back those old golden days of my life,and i wish i never grow up. ".....Happy Birthday to me"
"....while you are going to Pune take all your luggage in three bags, we have one bag, buy one more and the big green suitcase can hold most of your luggage", my dad told me this a week ago before i was going to pune to do my MBA. All this striked me one day in the third semester during the mid-terms as i was staring the green suitcase remembering about my parents, my brother, Hyderabad and how much i missed all of them. We purchased the suitcase while i was in my 9th grade may be January 2001 while my dad and mom planned for a vacation in Delhi and surroundings. My parents got their LTC and were very enthusiastic about the vacation. So a week before our travel, dad got the green suitcase, a big spacious one with wheels below and clips on the top and a locking system (which we never used till now). We were all geared up, when suddenly there was a major autorikshaw strike in Hyderabad and we had to catch the train early in the morning at 5:30. Finally on the day we got o...
SHYAMAL bhaiii
ReplyDeleteHAPPY BIRTHDAY to you once again
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you are too INTELLIGENT [:D]
ReplyDeleteHappy b'day dude,, u made me NOSTALGIC bringing to my memory all yhose WONDERFUL childhood days of mine...
ReplyDeleteI must say that i am really impressed with the u describe things in u r essay man...great work............
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heyyyyy shyamal...first of all a veryy veryy happiee("mechanical") budday...i think this is ur best blog of the three..not coz u have written very good sentences and used amazing vocab or something...more coz im able 2 connect wid it...obviously since i know m never gonna forget those childhood days spent wid u bth nd avva tatha..how much v used 2 fight 4 the tv remember?i know those days hv 2 be cherished..but hey lifes all about enjoying the present(and d birthday presents)...so have a many more rocking birthdays ahead!cz u might miss these days 2 in d future!
ReplyDeleteeven if u grow up da love n affection on u frm us is gonna b da same it jus keeps increasing n will never decrease its coming straight frm my heart n i guess u noe dat how close im with u.....bro u simply rock...u r da best n im sure ur gonna have best of ur lyf dis year all ur wishes r gonna come true!! love u!!
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